Is Online Therapy Right for You?

When I first began offering online sessions, I'll admit I had my own questions about whether the therapeutic connection could be as strong through a screen. Now, having worked exclusively online for some time, I can say with confidence that it absolutely can. But I also understand that if you've never tried online therapy before, you might have questions and perhaps some hesitation. This post is here to address those.

The Benefits of Online Therapy

There are many reasons why online therapy has become so popular, and from what my clients tell me, these are the benefits they value most:

Accessibility

You don't need to live near my practice in North West London to work with me. Online therapy means you can access support from wherever you are, whether that's another part of the UK or even abroad. This is particularly valuable if you live in an area with limited access to specialist therapists, or if mobility issues make travelling difficult.

Convenience

There's no commute, no parking, and no sitting in a waiting room. You can attend your session from the comfort of your own home, your car during a lunch break, or anywhere you feel private and comfortable. Many of my clients tell me this makes it far easier to fit therapy into their busy lives.

Comfort and Safety

For some people, being in their own environment actually helps them feel safer and more open. I've noticed that many clients find it easier to be vulnerable when they're in a familiar space. There's something about being wrapped in your own blanket, with a cup of tea in hand, that can lower the barriers to honest conversation.

Consistency

Online therapy makes it easier to maintain a consistent routine. If you travel for work, have childcare responsibilities, or simply have a demanding schedule, virtual sessions mean you're less likely to miss appointments. And consistency is one of the most important factors in therapeutic progress.

Common Concerns About Online Therapy

"Will it feel as personal?"

This is the question I hear most often, and I understand why. It's natural to wonder whether a screen can get in the way of genuine connection. In my experience, it doesn't. The therapeutic relationship is built on trust, empathy, and presence, and all of these come through in a video session. Within the first few minutes, most clients forget they're even on a screen.

"Is it secure?"

Absolutely. I use a secure, encrypted video platform that is compliant with data protection regulations. Your privacy and confidentiality are paramount, and I take the same care with online sessions as I would with in-person ones.

"What if my internet connection drops?"

Technology can be unpredictable, and it's happened to all of us. If we lose connection during a session, we simply reconnect. I always make sure we have a backup plan in place, whether that's switching to a phone call or rescheduling if needed. It has never been a significant issue in my practice.

Tips for Getting the Most from Online Therapy

If you'd like to try online therapy, here are a few things that can help you get the most from your sessions:

• Find a private space: Choose somewhere you won't be interrupted or overheard. Lock the door if you can, and let others in your household know you need quiet time.
• Test your technology: Make sure your camera, microphone, and internet connection are working before the session. It helps to use a laptop or tablet rather than a phone if possible, as the larger screen feels more immersive.
• Minimise distractions: Close other tabs, silence your phone, and give yourself permission to be fully present for the session. This is your time.
• Have comfort items nearby: A glass of water, tissues, a blanket, or anything that helps you feel settled. These small things can make a real difference to how safe and grounded you feel.
• Give yourself time afterwards: If you can, avoid scheduling anything immediately after your session. Having a few minutes to process, reflect, or simply sit quietly can be very valuable.

"The quality of the therapeutic relationship matters far more than whether we're in the same room. Connection is about presence, not proximity."

Is Online Therapy as Effective?

Yes. A growing body of research supports the effectiveness of online therapy for a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship difficulties. Studies have found that therapeutic outcomes are comparable to in-person work, and client satisfaction rates are consistently high.

If you've been thinking about starting therapy but have been put off by the idea of travelling to a clinic, or if online feels like a better fit for your lifestyle, I'd encourage you to give it a try. You might be surprised at how natural and effective it feels.